We're Going to Need More Wine: Stories That Are Funny, Complicated, and True

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

Nominated for the NAACP Image Award for Outstanding Literary Work

Named a Best Book of the Year by The Root

Chosen by Emma Straub as a Best New Celebrity Memoir

"A book of essays as raw and honest as anyone has ever produced." -- Lena Dunham, Lenny Letter

In the spirit of Amy Poehler's Yes Please, Lena Dunham's Not That Kind of Girl, and Roxane Gay's Bad Feminist, a powerful collection of essays about gender, sexuality, race, beauty, Hollywood, and what it means to be a modern woman.

One month before the release of the highly anticipated film The Birth of a Nation, actress Gabrielle Union shook the world with a vulnerable and impassioned editorial in which she urged our society to have compassion for victims of sexual violence. In the wake of rape allegations made against director and actor Nate Parker, Union--a forty-four-year-old actress who launched her career with roles in iconic '90s movies--instantly became the insightful, outspoken actress that Hollywood has been desperately awaiting. With honesty and heartbreaking wisdom, she revealed her own trauma as a victim of sexual assault: "It is for you that I am speaking. This is real. We are real."

In this moving collection of thought provoking essays infused with her unique wisdom and deep humor, Union uses that same fearlessness to tell astonishingly personal and true stories about power, color, gender, feminism, and fame. Union tackles a range of experiences, including bullying, beauty standards, and competition between women in Hollywood, growing up in white California suburbia and then spending summers with her black relatives in Nebraska, coping with crushes, puberty, and the divorce of her parents. Genuine and perceptive, Union bravely lays herself bare, uncovering a complex and courageous life of self-doubt and self-discovery with incredible poise and brutal honesty. Throughout, she compels us to be ethical and empathetic, and reminds us of the importance of confidence, self-awareness, and the power of sharing truth, laughter, and support.

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Sunee'
Jul 07, 2023
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strwbryfantom
May 04, 2023
10/10 stars
Nearly the same age, same national experiences that have shaped me helped to shape her. And yet, the differences in sex and race created such a unique environment for her that she and I with all of our similarities will never be able to relate to each other on more than just a surface level. I want to relate to her, i want to be deeply involved in the lives of others, but the divides are more pronounced than ever. I've been trying my whole life to close them, I've been trying to accept them, but really I'm still falling short. I do wish that people who aren't even attempting would realize how much further they need to travel on their own journeys.
@Matilda
Dec 16, 2022
10/10 stars
Love the way she became relatable to the reader.
Kay
Oct 18, 2022
9/10 stars
I really feel like I’ve learned a lot about GabU in this book. Topics are very relatable and you realize how down to earth she is.
DARLINGNikki
Sep 04, 2022
10/10 stars
Awesome and transparent! A woman taking full accountability for her life and actions!💚

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